Dedicated to a refuah shelaima for all of the injured in the war in Eretz Yisrael, for the safety of our soldiers, and as a prayer for the return of the hostages.
Parshas Chaye Sarah is composed of two main stories: the purchase of the field and cave of Machpelah as a burial placed for Sarah and finding a bride for Yitzchak. These two major moments seem very different, but they are connected by one thing in addition to their being the lifecycle events of patriarchs and matriarchs, and that connection is the subtle desire for deception verses talking straight.
This week in our current situation, it would be easy to jump into a Dvar Torah about Avraham’s purchase of Machpela from Ephron. But if you are reading this, you are probably not someone who needs proof of the Jewish people’s right to exist in the Promised Land. The text of the exchange has always been a bit of a mystery. Had the Midrashim and the commentaries not told me that there was subtext, that Ephron offered the land without any interest in not being paid the full market price, I would have thought that Avraham was highly beloved by his neighbors.
Even when Avraham insists on paying, Ephron declares, “My lord, listen to me; a [piece of] land worth four hundred shekels of silver, what is it between me and you? Bury your dead” (Bereishis 23:15). The general response is that this was a cultural response, a way of saving face in front of the Hittites. This may be true, and many of us have enjoyed haggling in the shuk, but it also demonstrates that Avraham was not interested in this game. He asked what the land cost and paid the premium price because he understood one of the most significant messages in the Torah: words matter. What is said matters.
Once the cave is purchased, Avraham looks to settle Yitzchak down and sends his servant Eliezer to Charan to find a bride. Hereto we have a situation where everything looks to be on the up-and-up. Lavan, Rivka’s brother, invites him to their home – and the Torah even tells us that Lavan did so only after hearing that Eliezer appeared rich. Her father and brother seem to be looking out for her in all of their discussions. And yet we know, from actions still to come and from the explanation of our greatest Midrashim, that they were duplicitous. They actually, according to the Midrash, had no intention of handing him Rivka but rather planned on murdering him and taking all of his gold.
Here is the interesting thing. Already, the Torah has provided a great deal of detail about what happened when Eliezer met Rivka, before she told her mother of him and her brother rushed to invite the rich man home. Once they have arrived at her home and Eliezer has been welcomed, he is invited to sit with them for a meal. He responds: “And [food] was set before him to eat, but he said, ‘I will not eat until I have spoken my words.’ And he said, ‘Speak.’” (24:33). This would not be so interesting if the Torah did not then present the entire story all over again from the lips of Eliezer…in many pasukim.
Eliezer, Avraham’s closest disciple, lays all of his cards on the table from the very beginning. Just like Avraham his master. There is no interest in playing games. There is no interest in underhanded gain. There is no interest in saving face and acting as if he has zero self-interest. This is the Torah value.
Stepping into the modern era and hearing the twisted history of stealing land, one cannot help but think of how Jews bought so many hecters (forgive me if that is the wrong term) of land in the first half of the 20th century and how the Zionist movement was clear on its call for a Jewish Homeland. There was no duplicity.
One might argue that in just a few weeks we will read the Torah narrative of Yaakov, who is known for the midda of emes and yet is called by his wife Leah the chief of the deceivers (in a Midrash). Yet when Yaakov buys Esav’s birthright, he speaks in straightforward terms and when he deals with Lavan he tries every means to express exactly what he wants, even as Lavan twists words and manipulates him constantly. And while the narrative of the brachos from Yitzchak is difficult, the text makes it clear that Yaakov did this against his will and tried his best to stick to the truth by, according to the Midrash, carefully wording his responses.
We have remained a straightforward people, and we will remain this way. Ephron, Besuel, Lavan and etc. have one major thing in common: They put on the face they thought that the person they were speaking to wanted to see even though they had plans in their minds that were far from the words that came from their mouths. This is the path of world politics and the media. This duplicity is the great public relations game that, to be honest, the State of Israel has been failing for decades. But, perhaps, it is not Israel’s fault. Perhaps, Baruch Hashem, this is just the way of our people. We have, right now, such simple wants – we want the hostages returned and to live in peace in our land. But the world can’t hear these basic requests because the world functions on deception, on the expectation that whatever is being asked for is not really what is desired. Our enemies speak of peace and ceasefire and humanitarian considerations with the intention of using that time to regroup, as they have proven time and time again. Israel asks for the return of the hostages and the end of Hamas – but no one believes our straightforward truth.
And while the world of nations might not care that we are genuinely laying our cards on the table, Hashem does. We are once again proving ourselves to be the true descendants of Avraham, Yitzchak, and Yaakov. (---a fact not to be lost during the parsha in which the lineage of Ishmael is delineated!)
May the coming of Moshiach be swift and easy. May the hostages be returned hale and healthy to their families. May the suffering of our people in Eretz Yisrael come to an end. Am Yisrael Chai! Shabbat Shalom.
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