Sunday, June 19, 2011

A Quick Thought On Shelach

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This Shabbat was Parshat Shelach, which is best known for the stories of the spies. While reviewing the parsha withoutkids, my husband read to them the often less spoken about story of the man who desecrated Shabbat by gathering wood. He was warned by two witnesses that he should stop his trangression and ignored them. He received the death sentence.  When my husbadn read the My First Parsha book version of the story, my eldest piped up that he had learned that the man did it so that everyone would know that the laws of Shabbat were serious.My husband had never heard this Midrash and was a bit surprised…after all, that would mean that this man deliberately set out to get the death penalty.

Upon further research, I discovered that this is one of those interesting stories on which there is definite disagreement. There is a Midrash that states that the man was worried that the Israelites, having just been denied entry into the Holy Land on account of the spies, would think that they need not keep any mitzvot until they were in the Promised Land and would therefore be lax. In this particular Midrash’s opinion, it was l’shaim sh’mayim (for the sake of Heaven). However, the Midrash Says, the book I was using for reference, specifically mentions that this is a highly contested Midrash.  The other book I looked into, The Weekly Midrash, discusses the other opinion – how great a rasha, wicked one, this man was.

These two Midrashim are startling contrasts to each other. So where, I wonder, does that leave me. How am I to pass on the emes of the Midrash with such a contrast of opinions. Perhaps from these two Midrashim one can learn two lessons. One is about judging others. We can never really know a person’s motives just by watching their actions. The second is that one person may very-well have two motivations. Perhaps this many worried that the others would come to sin because he believed it a bit himself. Perhaps he felt lost and disillusioned by the disheartening words of the Spies, perhaps he felt that they did not really have G-d’s forgiveness and would not get the land. He set out to desecrate the Shabbat like a stubborn child who breaks all the rules hoping to be caught so that Mom and Dad will prove their love by punishing them, by setting limits on them. Perhaps this man broke Shabbat because he was uncertain but, all the time, hoped that he would (and did) receiver proof that his actions really did matter.

Monday, June 6, 2011

A River Shabbat

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This weekend, the weekend before Shavuot…the weekend before my entire family is coming up for two days of Yom Tov followed by Shabbat…we went away. One could not say that we went on a vacation for the weekend, but it felt like one. Sadly, my husband’s grandmother passed away a few months back. This weekend was the memorial service/funeral for the ashes at her estate in the Thousand Island area in Ontario.

Events were scheduled throughout the weekend, but due to Shabbat, our family hung out at the estate until Sunday morning, when we were able to go to the cemetery and brunch. I had expected it to be a terrible weekend of trying to control my kids (in a thoroughly not-kid-friendly house) and to be constantly explaining our strange behaviours. But we had beautiful weather and enough of the extended family around in the afternoon to entertain the kids that it was the most relaxing Shabbat I have had in a long, long time.

Of course having people entertain the kids was part of it, but the other part was the different and beautiful scenery. The estate, known as Totem Point, is a magnificent piece of architecture – an island house built for entertaining. It is the river, however, that was the key. Sitting and watching the water, the waves, the light dancing its reflections. Ahh. Even the boats going by – speed or regular- added to the atmosphere.

So I can’t always go to such a place for Shabbat, I know that. I can’t put myself in a different location every time I want to feel spiritually refreshed. I can, however, take the memories of those moments and cherish them for when I need just a little boost.

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Parshat Naso: One Among Many

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The longest parsha (Torah portion) in the entire Torah, Naso, is the second reading in the Book of Bamidbar (Numbers). It begins with a natural continuation from the previous week’s census by sorting out the jobs of the levi’im. Then, however, the parsha presents a series of topics that appear, at first glance, to be quite disparate: levites; remunerations, tzarat and confession; suspicion of adultery/punishment of adulterers; the nazir (one who take so on the nazarite vow of refraining from haircuts, alcohol and contact with dead bodies; the priestly blessing; and the princely gifts

While gifts brought by the prince of each tribe closes the parsha, it also doubles the parsha’s length, taking three aliyot to be completed. It is also the most repetitive section of the Torah, as all 12 princes brought the same offerings and gifts. And while there are many different lessons that people have explained for this repetition, I would like to explore the entire parsha as a whole–and why these particular laws are grouped together.

The twelve princes honoured G-d in the best possible way – with unity. The well loved song says it best: Hinei mah tov u’mah’nai’yim, shevet acheem gam yachad. (How good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell together in unity – Psalms 133:1). But how do we get to unity?

The parsha begins with the levi’im who prepared the Mishkan (Tablernacle), demonstrating the need for people to work together, but each with his specific jobs. Another allusion to unity. Each group of levi’im had their own special tasks – and each was an essential part of the service.

The next portion of the parsha, however, introduces the rules for those affected by ritual impurity. While some may not enter the Mishkan or its environs, others are banished from the camp altogether. Those plagued with tzarat, which is commonly mistranslated as leprosy, suffered with this strange skin disease because of a spiritual degeneration. In most cases, tzarat was a result of lashon harah, the wicked tongue, an allusion to gossip. Those banished from the camp because of tzarat would, it was hoped, repent of their anti-social behaviour through a desire to return from banishment.

Reparations for thievery, another anti-social behaviour, is the topic of the next section of the parsha. A thief must return what he stole or the value of what he stole PLUS that value again. Additionally, a thief must confess his wrong doing. In fact, every transgression must be verbally confessed, to the victim and to G-d because every transgression weakens society.

Society is made up of individuals, but it is built in the home. Children learn morals at home. More importantly, children learn to feel secure, to trust others, at home. The Torah therefore next defines what should be done when the trust in a household is destroyed by the suspicion of adultery or adultery itself.

It is not just crime and moral misconduct that undermines a society. The Torah follows the question of the adulterer with instruction, praise and a subtle reprimand for the nazir. A nazir is one who takes a special vow to abstain from alcohol, hair cuts and contact with the dead. While the goal of the nazir, to make himself more holy, is praised, the conditions that separate him from society incur, according to some opinions, the need for a sin offering.

Without pause, the parsha transitions to the blessing of the priests over the people. Today, these words are included in the prayer service, the morning blessings and the blessing of the children on Shabbat – in addition to its recitation by the kohanim:

Y’va’reh’ch’cha Hashem v’yish’m’recha.
Ya’ayr Hashem panav ay’leh’cha vee’chu’neh’ka.
Yee’sah Hashem panav ay’leh’cha, v’yah’saym l’cha shalom.


May G-d bless you and watch over you.
May G-d shine His face toward you and show you favour.
May G-d be favourably disposed to you and grant you peace.

The nazir adds stringencies upon himself to come closer to G-d; the priestly blessing, however, offers insight into how to do that without the stringencies. In a relationship, a person is favourably disposed to another when the first person feels comfortable and accepted by the other. When the Jewish people turn toward G-d, G-d turns His face towards us – collectively and individually.

The Jewish people is a nation made up of individuals. Each has his own job. Some will fall, damaging the bonds of community. Others will set themselves apart in the desire to be better. In the end, for both the transgressors and the ascetics, nothing is as effective as turning your face toward G-d.

The power of the individual as part of the nation was not, at first, something that the princes of the tribes understood. When Moses first asked the people to bring gifts from the heart for the building of the Mishkan, the princes held back, saying among themselves that they would wait and see what was still needed. They assumed their individual abilities to give were of greater use than the giving of the community. After all of the people gave the donations to Moses, however, there was nothing left for the princes to donate. At the inauguration of the Mishkan, they did not make the same mistake. By each bringing the same gift at that time, they expressed the beauty of being an individual and a member of a larger whole.