Friday, September 13, 2019

Nations and Respect (Ki Tetze #2)

Within certain Jewish communities one can hear statements such as “a goy is a goy and can’t be expected to behave decently.” This is an attitude that is the result of centuries of anti-Semitic persecution, but, in my opinion, is really kneged Torah since all people are Btzelem Elokim, created in the image of God.

With this thought in mind, let us look at the second section of Devarim 23 particularly interesting. Although negative, it discusses different nations and the reasons why they may or may not join the nation of Israel.

“No Ammonite or Moabite shall be admitted into the congregation of the Lord, none of their descendants none of their descendants, even in the tenth generation, shall ever be admitted into the congregation of the Lord, because they did not meet you with food and water on your journey after you left Egypt, and because they hired Balaam son of Beor, from Pethor of Aram-Naharaim, to curse you.…. You shall never concern yourself with their welfare or benefit as long as you live. You shall not abhor an Edomite, for he is your kinsman. You shall not abhor an Egyptian, for you were a stranger in his land. Children born to them may be admitted into the congregation of the Lord in the third generation” (23:4-5,7-9).

Quite clearly the Torah recognizes the distinct character traits of global humanity – if not by each individual then certainly by nationally-inherited traits. In this regulation, the Torah is revealing something about these individual nations. The Ammonites and the Moabites were distant cousins of the Israelites, descendants of Avraham’s nephew, Lot. Thus when they refused Bnei Yisrael bread and water, it was particularly cruel as the Israelites were not complete foreigners to them but rather Semitic cousins with whom at least the necessities should have been shared.

Rabbi Shimshon Raphael Hirsch explains the prohibition of Ammonites and Moabites ever entering the assembly of God and the Edomites and Mitzrim only after three generations thus: “The Jewish nation is to build itself up by…guarding feelings of general humaneness and kindness, as well as fostering those of gratitude.”

So how has it become acceptable today to view other nations with such haughty eyes, to acknowledge their humanity with lip service only? Of course, there is the fact of the emotional trauma our people have suffered generation after generation, but that is an external factor for a people who are meant to be continually striving to emulate Hashem. It is a difficult question because many people have trouble acknowledging that there is a problem since, after all, we are “the chosen people.”

This is an opinion piece but being the chosen people does not give us the right to look down on other nations. Rather it gives us the responsibility to show other nations how Hashem wants humankind to be (as Rav Hirsch stated so beautifully) filled with “humaneness and kindness.” Certainly, halacha differentiates how one is to treat Jews and non-Jews, because we are a family. How we treat our family, however, should be a model for how we treat others.

The fact is that this is not just a question of how we act. Every Torah observant Jew understands the significance of thought and intention, the power of the tongue and how talk inevitably is reflected in action. If, in our minds, all of the other nations are lesser, than our actions reflect this belief. With bullying so often in the news, our society is very much aware that the bullies are often those who are hurting inside themselves. A person cannot truly pull themselves up by putting others down, and this is a lesson for Klal Yisrael. We do not become better people by insisting that the other nations are lowly. We become better people by following the Torah and living Jewish lives.

In an era of increasing anti-Semitism, it is natural to draw tighter into ourselves. At the same time, we must remember that to be a “light unto the nations” we must be the type of people who lead the way to being Godly, and this cannot be accomplished with condescension, fear, or loathing in one’s eyes. Hashem made Adam (and Chava) and breathed His life into him. He gave His law, His blueprint, to Bnei Yisrael. Now we must use that blueprint to build the world He intended us to build.

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