I am writing this week’s
parsha post on an airplane. Among the inflight entertainment options on my
screen is a movie titled “Birthmarked,” described as the story of two
scientists who “attempt to prove the power of nurture over nature by raising
three children contrary to their genetic predispositions.” I did not watch the
movie, but the description caught my attention and made me chuckle. As a
parent, I know how hard it is to try to bend the nature of a child. Then I read
this week’s parsha, Parsha Vayeilech, and I was struck by how much insight one
can gain when reading the Torah with child psychology in mind.
As we so frequently remind
ourselves at this time of year, God is the ultimate Father, Avinu. Throughout
the Torah (but particularly in the Book of Devarim), we are reminded that God
knows us, His children, well and that He knows that we will go wrong and
worship false gods. “The people will arise and stray after the gods of the
others of the land that they are going there among them, and they will forsake
Me and break My covenant that I made with them” (Deuteronomy 31:16). God is
here informing Moshe and Yehoshua that this is the nature of the Children of
Israel.
Perhaps you, like me, find it
hard to understand the idea of worshipping idols. We so often think of idol
worship as people bowing down or making sacrifices to statues or praying to
multiple deities. We can’t fully understand it because the desire for idol
worship has been removed from our people for many generations (since the Anshei
Knesset Hagedola). But the desire for “false gods,” for following the ways of
the others among whom we live, is still in our nature. The hypothesis is that the
urge for avodah zara is deeply connected to self-esteem and the desire for a
tangible object to blame for one's failures. Perhaps in the most recent era
people seek to fulfill that need through celebrities and the desire for one's
"five minutes in the spotlight." But really, we need to rely only on
Hashem and trust that the path He set out for us is the way to go.
Parshat Vayeilech features the
transfer of leadership from Moshe to Yehoshua. In announcing this transfer, the
use of the phrase “Be courageous and be bold!” occurs three times, which makes
it significant and interesting. Moshe says it to the people and then he says it
to Yehoshua directly, neither of which would have been particularly interesting
if not for the fact that Hashem then used this language with Yehoshua, which
adds a whole new level of significance.
Moshe’s words were meant to be
encouragement, both to the Children of Israel and Yehoshua. Hashem saying it to
Yehoshua is both a comfort and a forewarning. In telling Yehoshua to be strong
and courageous, Hashem is informing him that his role to come will not be an
easy one. This generation, raised in the wilderness, had all of Hashem’s
nurturing. But when sent out on their own, human nature would quickly reassert
itself and they would seek more tangible deities. This would not be Yehoshua’s
fault; it would be the influence of nature over nurture.
The challenge of
the desire to follow after false gods, whatever they may be, remains a
tremendous struggle. May we all have strength and boldness to overcome the
natural inclination (perhaps to take the path of least resistance) and to
nurture our connection with Hashem.
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