Tongues, Lungs and Eyes

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This morning a friend of mine asked me why my kids always seemed to be sick. And she wasn’t the first person to ask me or point this out. My kids catch things a lot, it’s true. Why–don’t know.

This has been a particularly challenging week. My eldest two, and my husband, were stricken by a weird virus that causes their tongues to hurt and small blisters to appear (and conveniently disappear when the doctor is mentioned so that there is no sign of anything wrong). Actually, this weird tongue virus has been in our house for over two weeks, but this week the three of them had it for sure. The three year old similarly complained but I was never sure with her.

We asked a doctor on Monday, on Wednesday, on Thursday and on Friday (all different doctors in different situations0 and they all shrugged their shoulders and said it was just a virus. (Thanks, really helpful when my kids are whining at me!)

The three year old, as I mentioned, also complained about her tongue but more concerning was that she started a fever Sunday night that lasted the entire week. Although she was seen by a doctor Monday (it’s just a virus), I took her to the pediatrician this morning (Friday) because I didn’t like the fact that the fever kept coming back as soon as the tylenol wore off.  Congratulations…she has Pneumonia (we even got x-ray confirmation).

After spending the morning at the pediatrician and the radiologist for x-rays, I managed to be home for all of an hour and a half before picking my eldest up from school and taking the top three to the eye doctor. Now my eldest kept telling us he needed classes…and both my husband and I thought it was all in his head. We were wrong…he is myopic (fancy word for nearsighted, I think). So Sunday we will be going glasses shopping.

If you are wondering how this all relates to thoughts on the soul, let me tell you. We have poor eyes, pneumonia and a mystery virus that will not die.  And I say — Hodu la’hem kee tov! Thanks to God, for He is good!  Every time I want to complain I just think…it’s only this. Baruch Hashem, these little childhood illnesses are nothing.  We all had them and we survived.

The news, even just the neighbourhood news, is so filled with tragic events and terrible illnesses that it makes one stop and say “Thank You God for the sneezes, and the coughs and, yes, even diarrhea.”

I had more thoughts on this, but I have to finish preparing for Shabbat.  However, all the things that happened today, this week, were such a beautiful reminder to me of how much we can learn when we look at things from a more global, more spiritual perspective.